My middle grandson in Spokane exudes people skills. Despite his single decade of life, he shows a discernment and power of influence over others. Part of that comes from his heritage. Countless other male Brumfield’s have used their charm to win the hearts of fair maidens, talk their way out of trouble, or invent methods of bringing joy to others amid tension and angst.
He recently entertained an audience of parents, siblings, and grandparents during a grade school performance, acting as an M.C. The chuckles and chortles over his side comments added a welcome surprise to the event.
Not all his skills come from this inheritance. I believe he has been gifted with a compassionate heart by our Lord. He continues to thank me for my services even without being reminded.
I don’t exactly know where my grandson witnessed the good manners and respect I’ve seen him demonstrate. The men in our family are kind, for the most part, but this grandson sees himself as a servant. More than once, I’ve noticed his absence as I look back at the church or a store to witness him holding the door open or letting an older man go before him. Other times he’s offered his assistance to a busy mother with her hands full. He often helped his grandfather during his health problems by acting as his go-for.
Just in case you think he’s an angel, please realize his halo tips a bit. He’s been known to use his powers of persuasion to cover himself. “Mom, I didn’t realize that ball would hit my brother. I didn’t mean it, really.”
He’s said on more than one occasion how young I look for my age. I know in my heart he’s trying to make me feel good, but it still makes me wonder where he gets these things.
His natural people “smarts” aid him to adjust to various social settings. He always seems to land on his feet.
His future looks rosy as far as making his way in the world. However, I don’t know if he’ll end up as a politician, conman, or pastor. In any case, my grandson will hopefully use his people skills as the Lord directs.
Dianna
Sharing the Fruit of Maturity
